• blog,  divorce,  Grief,  Thoughts

    Death by a Thousand Cuts

    When my¬† soon to be ex (stbx) informed me on July 2nd, 2017, that we (meaning he) was done, I literally felt like I couldn’t breathe. If he had stood in front of me and punched me in the stomach,…

  • blog,  divorce,  separation,  Thoughts

    An open letter

    Dear M, I’ve thought a lot about writing this letter to you. I’m conflicted because I don’t want to pay attention to you and have you think that you are a constant presence in my life. Trust me when I…

  • blog,  new life,  Thoughts,  Thoughts

    Update on my life

    There has been a lot going on with me since my last update. I have more good days than bad days, but I’ve been able to power through on the bad days and make it to the next, embracing it…

  • blog,  crocheting,  lifestyle

    Adventures in Crocheting

    So, I bought a book. It’s supposed to teach this newbie how to crochet. We will have a new grandson in June. Let’s see if this Grammy can make a blanket for him before he’s born! Here’s to trying something…

  • blog,  clothing,  dresses,  fashion steals,  the loft

    Black & Blue

    We finally had a day without heavy rain. I’m not complaining because where I live we have been in a drought for the past few years. That being said, our area experienced mudslides, flooding, downed trees and power outages. I…

  • blog

    Patience please

    Today I took the plunge to purchase my own domain and move to a hosting company. I was going to wait until the first of next month, but ended up getting a really good deal with Namecheap.com for hosting and…